10 Ways to Have Better Sex

Improve your intimate experiences with these easy-to-apply tips.

It’s a new year, so why not resolve to have better sex? We spoke to top sex and relationship experts to hear their tips — little things you can put into practice tonight! — to help transform your love life.

So sweet....

So the Artist said to me "Ahhh you are so good for me." Awww......

10 Surprising Sex Statistics

Whether it's penis size, papillomavirus risk, or profligate pregnancies, it's good to know the numbers. Check out these stats to see if you are well within the sexual mean or if you're off the charts.

56 Reasons to Have Sex

Yep, getting it on is good for more than just the pleasure principle. 

Do the nasty. Get down to business. Screw. Shag. Root. Bonk. For every silly nickname we use for sex, there's a totally legit reason why you should be having more of it. To prove our point, we've pulled together a comprehensive list of the mind-boggling benefits of hitting the sheets.  From boosting your immune system to releasing aggression, here are the many ways it pays to play dirty.

TMI Tuesday #6

1. When you masturbate, how long, typically, is your session and what do you think about (other than having an orgasm)?
An hour.  I focus on my current lover or focus on pictures of hot, throbbing cocks of past lovers. I mainly focus on how good the stimulation feels.


2. Have you ever been "caught" masturbating?
Thankfully, no.

3. Have you ever masturbated in front of your computer? If 'yes' was it for your own purposes or for someone's viewing pleasure?
Yes.  For my own pleasure.  I was reading something hot and I was really turned on & didn't want to take the time to go upstairs.

4. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?
No. But would be interested in mixed group.

5. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or?
Continue to stimulate so I can come come again.  I am lucky and can have multiple orgasms. 

6. Have you ever video'ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?
No.

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TMI Tuesday #5

Would you rather...

1. A relaxing vacation or an adventurous trip?

A relaxing vacation.

2. Get a perfect nights sleep or have amazing sex?

Amazing sex.


3. Be intimate with the lights on or off?
I like the lights to be dim; not bright and garish but not totally dark either.


4. Your S/O be a terrible kisser who could always make you orgasm or an amazing kisser who could never make you orgasm?
I don't like this question. I want both. If I HAVE to choose, I would say terrible kisser who could always make me orgasm. I can live with a peck on the lips, but I cannot live without my (almost) daily orgasm. I have to say I LOVE to kiss and think kissing all on its own is very sensual.

5. Date someone much younger or much older than you?
Either. I like someone younger because you can teach them a lot and they are more willing to try new things. I like someone older because they seem to care more and are more accepting of who I am sexually and otherwise.



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The Artist

This has been a long time in coming. The conversations and texting started innocently, and quickly moved to flirting. After sometime we moved onto serious flirting, little innuendos, and on to sexting. Both of us shy with each other when in person. You are such a mystery, very private. But I don't push, I am here. I've waited a long time for this, I'm patient.
When I become involved with someone, and am losing myself in something not necessarily good for me, you are there. You are here now.
Funny I couldn't let go of you through all of that, and you wouldn't allow me to. You had no idea, yet you kept my head somewhat clear.
Hmmm.... Spending time with you, whether you are putting ink on my body, I'm visiting you in between your appointments on my lunch hour, or we are at your apartment, is awesome.
The change came when I came to visit one day, and you grabbed my scarf and pulled me to you. There I was in the middle of the day in the front of your shop, in your arms. Then you kissed me, all I could feel was your body against mine. Then your mouth was on my breast, my nipple in your mouth. Did I mention the front of the shop is all glass and on the main street in town?!OK, yes my hand was on his crotch. The thrill of getting caught, delicious!
We moved to the back of the shop, we were all but undressed. I wanted to see his cock. I'd seen it in pictures to my phone, but here was the real thing. There are few special things about this cock of his, one of them being a piercing. I couldn't resist taking him in my mouth.
I love to take his cock into my mouth, and have had it quite often in the past month. It drives him crazy what I can do with my tongue. I've brought him to many orgasms.
I've found I have a talent, I actually removed his piericing with my tongue. It wasn't intentional, and it's a miracle that I didn't swallow it! I was in the middle of swallowing when I noticed it!
I don't know what this is between us. But it works for now, and I like it.

I fell, or thought I did for Bombay

I don't know exactly how to describe what or should I say who had my complete attention for a while. First I will mention his voice, it is hypnotizing for me. Still I long to hear it, yet I don't want to be pulled under any longer. Yes I'm nervous and excited about hearing it again, and I will be hearing it again soon I'm afraid. It is hard to explain, it is like knowing something that you want and are going to do is bad for you, but the rush you get is so intense you can't help yourself.
A little scary to fall so quickly, and completely. Yet a very exhilarating feeling and a total turn on.
Let me say that he is not someone I would typically be attracted to, but he is cute. We met online, and spent hours, days, and weeks getting to know each other. I came to love him and he me. Once I reach those depths of feelings for someone, it just makes things so complicated.
I have to admit that he is quite the unique man, with quite a colorful life. Not that you could tell this by looking at him, which makes the thought of sex more exciting.
Total trust, that is what I was willing to give him. I have never given anyone my complete and total trust sexually before, but with him it came so easily.
This is significant because he has a fetish, one that I don't know if I'm ready to mention, at least not yet. Indulging him in this fetish requires, at least as far as I'm concerned, me to trust him completely. It is on the fringe of this fetish of his that I am hanging.

Join the Sexual Resolution

Go to the Mominatrix’s Sexual Resolution blog, a daily dose of sex that is updated throughout January.

This month long sexual extravaganza provides tips and challenges.

Each day, Mominatrix recaps the previous day’s challenge, and then provides the task for the day (offering some adaptations for the overachievers and the sexually challenged), helpful hints, and special tips.

If you’re worried that you’ll be required to swing from a trapeze or have sex standing on your head, then you’ve got the wrong idea. While circus skills and flexibility can definitely enhance your sex life, the purpose of this resolution is to focus on you feeling sexier.

Your participation and interaction will be rewarded, through a fabulous grand prize (more details to come) for those who actively participate in the challenges, and weekly prizes that will coordinate with the challenges for everyone all courtesy of Eden Fantasys. Yay for cool prizes just for having sex.

You Play a Part

Today I was horny and getting hornier as the day went on and I was thinking of you. I couldn't stand it anymore, so I used my toys and thought of your tongue and mouth all over me, licking and sucking. Hmmm . . . good memories. So you do play a part in my sex life and you do help me to cum again and again when I am playing all by myself.